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second Become emotionally fitter
The fascinating thing about horses, that they each emotion can arouse in us, together with good and bad: anger, fear, frustration, feelings of failure ... There appear to ideas such as ... You stupid horse ... Such a stubborn goat who is a bolter, etc. Perhaps it is you personally have never been that way, but me and thousands of horse owners around the world already, and all that often just because big misunderstanding.
talk horses neither German, English or French - they have their own sometimes subtle but very clear language, be it sport or pleasure horse, whether whole blood or cold blood. They are flight animals that have survived because they know how it is predators. However, we are the most successful and most dangerous predators on earth, and are unfortunately often with questionable means to the goal. But what are We then in the eyes of the horses, and if we are honest, even in our own?
When horses have problems with us, it's usually because they are confused, do not understand what we want, fear of our energy or our eye on or before the way we approach them. Other horses again, think the pronounced with the left brain know exactly what strategies they can use to make us emotionally. Many of us have learned to think that these horses were in this case, disobedient or "stupid" and should be punished or controlled. Because horses are living from moment to moment, they understand punishment but not. It makes the situation worse in the long run often or give up the horses and just dull.
horses do not differentiate between a fearful and angry person. The energetic effect is threatening, and they begin to resist or to escape. If that is not possible to defend some of them even heavier and even fight.
Who has not ever faced! So when we get frustrated the next time, be angry or fearful, let us try something else:
stop, pull back and say it to ourselves: Hmm ... How interesting! Why do I effect this situation?
This strategy will help us become fitter emotionally, because it forces us to think about the situation rather than simply react.
more emotional we are with horses, the more deteriorated the relationship. We should, however, instead of being impatient or angry, and be their leader or leaders, calm, deliberate, knowing and understanding, clear, friendly, determined. Thus, we can help the horse, the to find the right solution, or, if appropriate put a fair determination of the day when a horse is not as our personal space respected.
We look at this: Negative emotions are a sign that we lack answers. You need more knowledge.
Can you imagine never experiencing a "bad Horse Day", but that - the fact that your understanding and your partnership developed enormously - when appear "problems", this frustrations to be fascinating because you solutions-oriented are, rather than condemn the horse?
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